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Hebrews 13:4

As I was doing some lite reading last night, this scripture stuck out to me.  Thankfully this is not an issue that my husband and I have; however, it makes me wonder how others can so easily fall into the trap.

Ephesians 13:4 - Let marriage he held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the immoral and adulterous.

Ephesians 13:4 – Let marriage he held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the immoral and adulterous.

Getting Lost and Being Found

It took a long time to work up to this, but over the past few weeks I’ve had the need to share my personal story.  I don’t know who needs to hear it, but I hope it helps.

If you’ve read about me you know I don’t consider myself a “cradle Catholic,” but I’ve been a baptized Catholic for 29 of my 36 years on Earth.  Growing up my mother, sisters and I attended Mass on a weekly basis, and my dad would join us on Christmas and Easter.  For fun during the summers, I would attend morning Mass with my grandfather, and sometimes at night my cousin, sisters and I would say the Rosary with him.

Troy and I

{I wish I had a picture of our wedding to share, but those pictures were ruined in the storm surge that accompanied Hurricane Katrina during her visit to the Landmass between Alabama and Louisiana.}

My sisters and I received the sacraments of Reconciliation, Holy Eucharist and Confirmation at the appropriate ages.  Well, I received Confirmation a year late.  I didn’t understand that it was about accepting Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior.  But I did know it was what my mother wanted, so I did it.  Now I’m glad I listened to her.

I met my husband six months after graduating high school.  Four months later we got engaged.  We spoke to our priest.  We took the compatibility tests.  We met with our assigned married couple.  We waited the six months. After doing everything asked we were not allowed to get married in the Church because we lived together.  That would have been good to know in the beginning.  Needless to say we were not happy with the Church.  But that didn’t stop us.  We got hitched by a Justice of the Peace in my parent’s front yard anyway. Continue reading

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